Question:
Should I move to New York?
anonymous
2012-09-17 17:36:41 UTC
I am a junior in college studying to be a psychologist. I reallllllly love the hustle and bustle attitude of NY and wish to move there when I am done with college. I want to live in Ny city but am concerned about the crime rates. Can you guys tell me what is the safest place to live in NY city and to possibly raise a family in the future? Also, I want to know more about the "New York attitude" and how to talk and act like local residents? I really got inspired to live in Ny after watching friends with benefits and seeing Mila Kunis teach Justin Timberlake all about the city of New York seen from a local's eyes so pls tell me if there are any other movies like this one that show you NY through the eyes of a New yorjer. I want to learn to totally step out of my shy and reserved personality and get into the loud and obnoxious personality of New-Yorkers. I am from Illinois in a very secluded, polite and safe city so, I do not know if I can adjust to the rushed life in New York. So, my questions are,
1.What is the safest place to live in near or in New York City?
2.How do you learn to talk and act like local New Yorkers with the attitude and everything?
3.Do you guys have any tips for me, like anything at all about New York?
4.Do you guys know of any good movies that show New York through the eyes of a local?
5.Should I live in New York City or a nearby suburb?
6.What are the crime rates like in New York in general or just New York City?
Thank you ppl soooo much for reading my post and maybe answering one or more of my questions and helping to clear my confusion on this amazing city!
Four answers:
Andrzej
2012-09-17 18:04:56 UTC
I have lived in Brooklyn, New York from when I came to America ( from Poland) when I was 4 years old to now ( I am 19) so I will try my best to answer your questions.



1.What is the safest place to live in near or in New York City?

New York City is essentially a safe place to live in, but the places you would want to stay away from are flatbush,brownsville,east new york ( all in Brooklyn) and Harlem ( Manhattan.) I do not know about Queens or Bronx. In Staten Island, anywhere near the ferry is not a safe place. Really, any place that has a significant Black or Latin American population tends to be unsafe. Sorry but true.





2.How do you learn to talk and act like local New Yorkers with the attitude and everything?

Where I live, 60% of the population was born outside of the US. Many people speak with their own accent whether it be Russian, Polish, Chinese, Mexican, etc. You should not worry about talking like a local New Yorker.



3.Do you guys have any tips for me, like anything at all about New York?

Personally, I would not want to live here. In fact I am moving out as soon as I finish Dental school to either Europe or California. You should visit New York and see what it is like for yourself.



4.Do you guys know of any good movies that show New York through the eyes of a local?

Sorry, I do not know any.



5.Should I live in New York City or a nearby suburb?

I would recommend living in Brooklyn. Manhattan is extremely expensive. Brooklyn has a good connection to Manhattan ( about 30-40 min by train, maybe even less depending on where you live)



6.What are the crime rates like in New York in general or just New York City?

They have significantly lowered in the past 10/15 years.





Again, you should come here for a bit to see what life is like for itself. There is much diversity in New York.



**** You should visit this website. http://projects.nytimes.com/census/2010/explorer ******

It shows you much valuable information based on the census. You can view the ethnicity of the population which can help you determine what type of neighborhood you want to live in. You can also check the median home price/rent etc. It is a very useful thing to use.
Laptop0887
2012-09-17 20:34:54 UTC
Hey, first of all, I have not seen that movie but it may not be like in the movie.



Since the mid 90's the crime rates have decreased dearly, but it is not completely safe there.



NYC consists of 5 boroughs:



The majority of Manhattan is fairly safe. It is very hustle and bustle, though. It is also ridiculously expensive. Some people are able to get rent controlled apartments however, they are hard to come bye as they are extremely competitive to get into send so many people want to live in the great New York City. If you can get 1, living in the village is probably the greatest place to live in the world. diverse, chill people who are still fine to party all night. Can get a little weird, though but overall awesome. Like sushi, it's the best place to get sushi in New York. Bonus for living in Manhattan is that it is easier to get around there without a car.



overall, I would say that the Bronx is a no. Is a psychologist, you will be able to afford at least better than the Bronx it is very ghetto overall. But the pizza competes is as a close second Brooklyn, the best dang pizza in the freaking country.



I can't tell you on your account about Staten Island, but I can tell u I've heard the edge candy very house on Buffalo and it is a weird place I would not recommend it. It's all the expensI've.



What is my opinion has the best pizza and Italian food in New York City. Very much divided between rich and poor and is more suburban tHan the rest of the places I mentioned. I really like it there. They literally have superheroes there. In Brooklyn, you can even own a house but be warned your kids may grow up with those terrible accents. Have more space there though, sometimes a house.



If you're more into suburban, I would definitely recommend queens. Is the most culturally diverse place on the planet and that is a fact. You could live in somewhere from poor all the way up to lower upper class . You can get urban, suburban practically whatever you dang well please. If you want a happy medium between the "ideal suburban place to raise kids" and the hustle and bustle, I would go with a nice apartment in Sunnyside or Long Island City. A really ideal place to raise kids would be Fresh Meadows it's really great.



Surrounding area of New York City is North Jersey. The taxes are awful. as a psychologist, you maybe able to deal with them. There are some Caucus "exchange" houses and apartments are beautiful and they provide a free quick shuttle service to the sea caucus junction stations, were you can get to New York Penn Station and then the subway in 10 minutes. If you can afford it it's a luxury. Some more middle class places would be the town of sea caucus, the Clifton area and the Ramsey area. Ramsey a suburban, but more close to Rural. The Bergen County area tends to be on the more expenses and upper class side, however, there are still some middle class places you can hang out. It will be at least an hour commute into New York City and you're not getting the new York City experience by living there unless you live extremely close to the city, as in Fort Lee which is not the greatest area to live in 4 Edgewater, which still isn't new York City but it is very high class and very close in proximity.



last: long Island. Beautiful ocean scenery, suburban/ rural. Very middle class . Nice people cute place can be a long commute to New York reasonable prices. Kind of plain, though.



If you have more questions, feel free to contact If you have more questions, feel free to contact me via the information on my profile. New York City is a great place!
brownell
2016-09-21 01:22:43 UTC
I grew up in Miami and married a New Yorker too. I divorced him nine years later. Cracker+ Yankee is taking a gigantic threat. If the New Yorkers all left Florida the Cubans might nonetheless be there so I consider I'd opt for the Yankees.
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2012-09-17 17:57:53 UTC
1. The entire city is safe, just depends on your specific preference of area and what you can afford.

2. The "New York City attitude" is fake, you can act like how you normally do ; thats kind of offensive. We are REALLY nice people and we just are fast paced and busy.

3. Just be who you are and stay focused on your goal and try to make friends, don't try to be overly nice to people (it comes off as obviously fake/ it also makes you stick out like a new person or a tourist) it is very easy to take advantage of new people so make sure you stay focused on everything you say and do, things are VERY expensive so if you get a tiny apartment for more than you would pay for a house where you came from its normal. $1000 is the norm for a 1 or 2 bedroom apartment (you should possibly get a rommate if you can't afford it.

4. Spiderman movies when Peter isn't acting as Spiderman lol. It shows how life sorta is in NYC (daily living,little random things,going on dates,etc). Black Swan kinda shows how life is outside of the theater parts.

5. Move into Brooklyn(Greenpoint,Williamsburg,Boerum Hill,etc) or Queens(Long Island City,Astoria,etc).

6. NYC is the safest city of the entire nation but Manhattan is the safest,then Brooklyn,then Staten Island(too stressful trying to get anywhere in NYC because of lack of transportation),then Queens and Bronx is definately unsafest(still fairly safe as long as you stay away from South Bronx



BTW stay out of Brownsville & East New York in Brooklyn, South Bronx in the Bronx, Jamacia & Far Rockaway in Queens, anywhere above 150th St in Manhattan, and idk about Staten Island.


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